What would a boy do if he likes a girl? She will take the initiative to chat with girls to increase communication and understanding; she will take the initiative to ask girls out to play, and deepen the relationship through actual contact; she will take the initiative to care about girls and greet her... So what does it mean if a girl takes the initiative to ask a boy out to play?
1. Girls lack playmates
Some girls like to go out to play, but it may be a coincidence that her friends are either going out with their partners or going out with their high school classmates. Either I have gone home, or I have to concentrate on my studies... As a girl, I really don’t want to be alone at home during the weekend. I thought that I could chat with you during the week, so I took the initiative to ask you out to play. That’s all. That’s it, don’t think too much about it.
Of course, in this case, it also means that the girl appreciates certain qualities of the boy and trusts his character, so she invites you to go out together. So in this case, if you take the initiative to pursue a girl, the probability of grabbing her hand is quite high.
@禍秋风 Listen to Mars: I used to think that girls take the initiative to date boys because they like them. One time, it was almost the end of the semester, and she said let's go out to play after the exam. As a single mother, I said yes, and then went to the amusement park, but nothing happened. I thought she liked me at the time, so I pursued her actively. Later she became my girlfriend, and I asked her what her mentality was when she took the initiative to ask me to go out to play, and when we had dinner. She said that it was just the mentality of ordinary friends, and she didn't think much about it at all. Okay, I was overthinking it, but fortunately the result was good.
2. Girls return favors
Sometimes girls take the initiative to ask boys out for dinner or something, maybe to repay the favor by inviting them to dinner. It may be that the boy helped the girl move before; or the boy invited the girl to dinner before and the girl wanted to invite him back; or the boy borrowed money from the girls to solve the girl's urgent need, and the girl took the initiative to treat the boy to dinner after she had money.
Therefore, after a girl takes the initiative to invite a boy to dinner, don’t think that the girl likes you first. Think back to whether you have helped her recently. girl. Such girls generally rarely interact with boys and are relatively independent people. If you meet them, you can try to pursue them.
3. Girls like you
Some girls like someone without making it obvious, but some girls like someone and will also show it very proactively. In this case, the girl takes the initiative to ask the boy out because she wants to see you and wants to enhance understanding and cultivate feelings through face-to-face interaction. So, if a girl asks you to do optional things, for a girl who usually doesn’t like to interact with boys (did you find out or did she say it herself?), it is very likely that she has a crush on you.
Girls take the initiative to ask boys out to play mainly in the above three situations. Boys may wish to boldly go on the date first. Only by getting in touch more can you know what girls mean to you.
